The depression formation is affected by many factors, such as the introverted, quiet, unsociable and eccentric, suspicious, negativism, depe
The depression formation is affected by many factors, such as the introverted, quiet, unsociable and eccentric, suspicious, negativism, dependent children, often pay attention to negative things, is prone to depression. In addition to depression, generally have psychological or mental factors, such as the divorce of parents, children are not indifferent, interpersonal coordination, learning disabilities and other negative life events, may induce depression. Of course, family genetic factors also play a role in children's depression, according to statistics, 50% of the depressed children at least one of the parents have a tendency to depression. Although children are timid, introverted, there are inherent reasons, but the acquired environment is more important, if children live in a full understanding and caring environment, the child may not show depression, a long time, this bad mood may gradually be masking. Therefore, parents' education has a very important role in the development of children.
When the child shows a tendency to depression, it is recommended that parents should be guided by the following.
Equal treatment of children, respect for children. Some children do something wrong or experienced several times of failure, will not particularly depressed children performance in this regard is more prominent. If this happens, parents must be in a calm mood to treat the child's negligence and failure to use appropriate education, patiently enlighten. Must not blindly blame, otherwise it is easy to let the child feel depressed. When a child does not want to participate in certain activities, the task of the parents is not to urge him to do or to scare him, but consciously guide him to avoid the unfortunate and hurt. Worry about the child, parents should be scientifically interpreted, as early as possible to eliminate the concerns of children.
As parents learn to listen. Listening is not only a real understanding of people, but also for those who talk, but also release the inner depression, thus eliminating concerns. As a parent, when the child is nervous, anxious, or depressed, you might as well try to listen patiently, let the children feel that parents can understand him, in the heart of a sense of comfort and ease the tension. In peacetime, parents should also pay attention to the home to form a relaxed atmosphere, parents often tell jokes, say something interesting. Of course, parents can consciously use some skills such as the exclusion of distress, when their own unhappy, you can listen to music, go for a walk outside, his concerns about the methods to others, which can eliminate depressed. If parents are good at using a variety of ways to eliminate the trouble in life, when the child is not happy, he will imitate their parents to use certain methods to alleviate the negative emotions.
Guide children to participate in activities. Parents should try to let the children often with similar age and his little friends to play and talk, especially to let him participate in the activities of communication with others, let the children become active, children gregarious personality. The characteristics of the child parents can tell the teacher, ask the teacher to give children more attention, the teacher in the classroom can suggest to ask the children to answer certain questions, then in front of the children praised him, set up his self-confidence, overcome the child in front of the other kids shyness and inferiority. Of course, parents and teachers to talk, we must not let the children see, depressed children are generally very sensitive, if the child saw, may also have adverse effects. In addition, also can cultivate children's courage through different activities, such as possible, so that he can leave their parents or leave home for a long time to live in the home of friends and family alone, to exercise his ability to live independently.