2 positive label paste negative label does not pasteThe doctor dad Second experience is to give children with a negative label, for example,
2 positive label paste negative label does not paste
The doctor dad Second experience is to give children with a negative label, for example, children do not eat meat, do not eat vegetables, or do not eat fruit. He is not to eat these things and not the children, maybe sometimes he doesn't want to eat, maybe sometimes he doesn't have a good appetite, and not for those not interested, but you early to give him labeled as such, it virtually becomes a hint. For example, you say to others: my children do not eat meat, for children, this is a kind of psychological suggestion, when he wants to eat meat, his father felt that I don't eat meat, eat meat again do not seem to be appropriate, gradually the child really does not love to eat meat. The child is a blank sheet of paper, which is harmful to his mental health. Proposal to give the child some positive labels, for example, my child is very clever, my child is very love to learn, my child is very polite, my child is very sensible, this positive label, a little more. This is for the child development, mental health, I still feel the benefits of growth. I often hear many parents exchange said, and put the label to the child, the child I love my child a cold, how a runny nose, how to have a fever, the hint from psychosomatic medicine it will let the child feel sick. If the old say so, he did not catch a cold for a long time, he also felt a thing, "how can I not catch a cold? Catch a cold can get more care!" This suggestion will also play a role in the pathogenesis of. To reduce this negative hint, less paste this negative label, more positive to praise the child, the child's growth is very useful.